Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Charles Spooner with the following comment:
Charles Spooner is/was my husband's first cousin, once removed. (Instead of working on my own family's genealogy, I have now decided to help my husband - who will be aged 80 years in July - with his Family Tree. His grandmother was Eliza Spooner.) Many thanks indeed for your assistance re. the grave monument picture.